A Deeper Marriage · A Stronger Us
Monthly Christian marriage mail for couples who want to keep growing.
A year from now, your marriage will be a year older.
Will it be a year deeper?
A real envelope delivered to your door each month with one meaningful marriage theme and simple ways to talk about it, practice it, and live it together.
U.S. shipping included · U.S. addresses only
Your first package ships within 3–5 business days.
Biblically grounded. Built for ordinary married life.
One monthly theme
An entire month of ways to live it.
Each month centers around one meaningful part of building a deeper, stronger marriage. Everything you receive is intentionally connected to that month's theme.
1 Marriage Letter
Understand the month's idea, think about it together, and begin a conversation worth having.
4 Weekly Practice Cards
One simple practice each week to move the idea from "That's good advice." to "We're actually living this together."
2 Monthly Rhythm Cards
Simple ways to begin weaving the month's theme into the way you relate to one another. Not more things to accomplish. Small opportunities to make room for your marriage.
1 Keepsake Card
Something tangible to remember what you talked about, practiced, learned, or chose to keep building together. Month by month, your keepsakes become a physical record of the marriage you're creating.
1 Spark Card
One unexpected invitation to interrupt the ordinary and create a little spark. Flirt. Notice. Remember. Laugh. Open up.
1 Exclusive Erik + Erica Video
Go deeper into the month's theme with additional teaching, perspective, encouragement, and practical application.
A peek inside Month One
Explore two of the four weekly practices you'll receive in your first envelope.
$11.95/month · U.S. shipping included · Pause, skip, or cancel anytime.
The desire is there. The rhythm isn't always.
Most couples don't stop wanting to be close. Life just gets full.
The conversations you meant to have get pushed back. Date night gets skipped. Another week passes, and the person you love most can end up getting whatever time is left.
Not because your marriage doesn't matter. Because without an intentional rhythm, even the things that matter most can get crowded out.
A Deeper Marriage | A Stronger Us turns the intention to connect into something you actually do together.
We create the rhythm. You make room for each other.
You don't have to keep figuring out how to be more intentional. Each month, the conversation, theme, and practices are already waiting for you.
Open it.
Something created specifically for your marriage arrives at your door.
Live it.
Read the letter. Try the weekly practices. Use the rhythm cards. Watch the video. Make room for the month's theme in ordinary life.
Keep building.
Carry what matters forward and begin again with something new the next month.
Miss a week? You're not behind.
There's no homework to make up and no perfect participation required. Pick up the next card and keep going. The goal is intentionality—not perfection.
You don't have to have a bad marriage to want a deeper one.
Maybe you're just getting started and want to build intentional rhythms from the beginning.
Maybe life is full of kids, work, schedules, laundry, responsibilities, and ordinary Tuesdays—and you want to make room for each other again.
Maybe you've felt some distance and want a meaningful way to reconnect.
Or maybe your marriage is already healthy and you simply want to keep growing.
A Deeper Marriage | A Stronger Us is for couples who value the relationship they already have and want to keep strengthening it.
Because your marriage is worth building.
Marriage advice doesn't change a marriage. Practicing it does.
There is no shortage of marriage information. Books, podcasts, apps, courses, posts we save, videos we mean to watch. And some of it is incredibly helpful.
But strong marriages aren't built only by how much we know. They're built by what we actually practice with the person beside us.
That's why every month gives you one idea to focus on—and simple, connected ways to actually live it.
Small practices. Deeper connection. A stronger us.
Your journey starts at the beginning.
A Deeper Marriage | A Stronger Us is designed as a 12-month marriage-building journey. Every couple begins with Month One and moves through the experience in order. Every month introduces a new theme.
A monthly subscription, not an annual commitment. Pause when you need to, skip a month, or cancel anytime — no long-term contract.
Month One · Covenant
The Rock
Remember what you're building your marriage on. Month One helps you return to the covenant beneath the schedules, responsibilities, stresses, and ordinary life you share.
Month Two · Identity
What We Carry
Recognize the stories, wounds, expectations, patterns, and identities you each bring into your marriage—and how what you carry shapes the relationship you're building.
Month Three · Safety
Safe With Me
Build the kind of marriage where honesty and vulnerability have somewhere safe to land.
And you keep building from there.
A new theme. New practices. Another part of your marriage intentionally strengthened together. It isn't random marriage content arriving in your mailbox. It's an intentional journey.
Why does it come in the mail?
Books can stay unopened. Apps can disappear into our phones. Podcasts get saved for later.
But an envelope actually enters your home.
"Honey, look what came in the mail."
For a moment, ordinary life pauses. There's something new to open. Something to talk about. Something to experience together.
Sometimes intentionality needs something tangible. Something that keeps your marriage from having to compete for whatever attention is left.
Rooted in something deeper.
A Deeper Marriage | A Stronger Us is rooted in the biblical understanding that marriage is more than a relationship to maintain. It is a covenant worth building intentionally.
Each month takes a meaningful biblical marriage principle and translates it into practical ways to live that truth in ordinary married life.
This isn't about having a perfect marriage. It's about continuing to become the husband, wife, and couple God is calling you to be.
Why we created A Deeper Marriage | A Stronger Us
We believe strong marriages are built in ordinary moments.
After more than twenty years of marriage, raising a family, walking through hard seasons, writing and speaking about marriage, and helping couples build relationships that endure, we've learned something:
Most couples don't need another massive marriage program. They need simple ways to keep choosing each other while real life is happening.
That's why we created A Deeper Marriage | A Stronger Us.
Not to give couples more marriage information. But to give you one meaningful thing to build around each month—and practical ways to actually live it.
Something that shows up. Something you can hold. Something you can practice together.
Something that reminds you: We're still building us.
— Erik + Erica
A month of intentional marriage-building for $11.95.
Every month includes:
- One marriage letter centered around the month's theme
- Four weekly practice cards
- Two monthly rhythm cards
- One keepsake card
- One Spark Card
- One exclusive Erik + Erica video
- U.S. shipping included — U.S. addresses only
That's about $2.76 a week to intentionally invest in the relationship you live in every day.
- · $11.95/month, billed on your signup date — the same date each month.
- · Your first package ships within 3–5 business days; later packages ship on the 20th of each month.
- · Lost or damaged in the mail? We'll replace it.
Frequently Asked Questions
A year from now, your marriage will be a year older.
The months are going to pass either way. What if a year from now, your marriage wasn't only older—but deeper?
More conversations you might not have had.
More moments of turning toward one another.
More understanding of the person beside you.
New rhythms woven into ordinary life.
Month by month. Theme by theme. Conversation by conversation. Practice by practice.
A Deeper Marriage | A Stronger Us gives you a simple rhythm for continuing to invest in what you're building together.
A Deeper Marriage. A Stronger Us.
$11.95/month · U.S. shipping included · U.S. addresses only
Grow closer. Go deeper. Build a stronger us.